Would you rather be Caring or Intimidating?

In this business I'd rather be the big scary black man than the small white woman. But I have no choice. I was born in this tiny body. So I have to work with what I got. Maybe, just maybe I will learn to channel my inner big scary black man in tough times when I need to be thick-skinned. Most people develop thick skin over time. Well, a lot more time has to pass before I can develop this outter shell, so I have to be patient. It will happen. I will be mentally tough. Eventually, hopefully before I grow too old and become too burnt out trying to find myself.